Today is my grandma's birthday. She would have been 93 and I can't believe she's been gone for nearly 6 months. I miss her every day and I'm constantly amazed at the number of things that remind me of her that pop up on a daily basis. So in honor of my grandma, here's a list of 93 things that remind me of her and 93 of the thousands of reasons I miss her so very much.
1. Nutty bars
2. Canasta
3. Scrabble
4. Roses
5. Bananas
6. Banana savers (you know, the things you can buy that will cover 1/2 banana for you? She would only eat just a half at a time and every time I see one of these silly contraptions at the store I think that she's the only one I knew who would use it. Well, her and Lawrence)
7. Coffee creamer
8. Canned cranberries
9. Spaghetti (the last meal she ate at our house was spaghetti that Lawrence made and she raved about it so much she made him promise we would come down and make it for her again)
10. Coke floats
11. Sewing machine
12. Purple (my grandma always told me a story of how purple was my favorite color when I was young and one day at the store I complimented a very large woman on her purple dress - it was a funny story when she told it, but I could never remember a time when purple was my favorite color however I always believed her because her memory was better than mine is)
13. Asher (I'm so glad they had the chance to meet, and he was with me in the room when she passed away - I think they will always be connected because of that)
14. Our staircase (she climbed it like a monkey to get upstairs to see the nursery and I will never forget that sight or the effort that it took her, and she never complained or said she couldn't do it)
15. Hot air balloons
16. Our local coffee shop (we had a nice little lunch there in the fall - I will always chersih the last few meals we were able to have just the two of us when she came up to Des Moines)
17. Laughing
18. Tickling (she and Lawrence would get into tickling contests)
19. Banana bread
20. The blue pitcher
21. My favorite chair
22. Our fireplace mantle (made from timbers from the farm she lived on)
23. Chicken and rice
24. Oatmeal cookies (only my Aunt Janet makes them as good as grandma did)
25. Blue birds
26. Golden finches
27. Hummingbirds
28. Bird feeders
29. "Squinties" (what she would call chipmunks - she hated them!)
30. Cats (she didn't like them either!)
31. Pan fried hamburgers
32. soft, fuzzy cardigans
33. Sunday comics
34. Readers Digest
35. Asher's hands (she commented they looked like he had a manicure they were so perfect the first time she held him)
36. Ham (the only place I would ever eat it is at her house)
37. Cribbage
38. Boggle
39. the 9o'clock nightly news
40. Clone cones
41. Washing dishes by hand
42. White kitchen drying towels
43. family pictures (she insisted on getting photos every time there was a group of us together)
44. shredded wheat
45. frozen blueberries
46. strawberry ice cream
47. bendy straws (she always had them on hand)
48. ice cream cones (she always had those on hand too)
49. wigs
50. veiny hands (from the time I was little I would trace the veins on the back of her hand with my finger- I thought it was magically the way they would pop back up after I pushed them down)
51. Christmas
52. slippers (her last Christmas gift to me was a pair of slippers she bought before she passed away - they had my name written on a slip of paper clipped to the toe. I keep them in my top drawer with the note still attached)
53. Twin beds
54. eyebrow pencils
55. rosy lipstick
56. checkbooks (she would write checks for everything and kept her account balanced all the time)
57. Her bony pointer finger
58. shaking her fist (usually at Lawrence when we were playing cards)
59. Her dainty wrists
60. "Go faster" (anytime you were helping her walk, she always said it was easier for her to go faster so she'd urge you along)
61. seafood
62. Red Lobster
63. tenderloins (but only if you'd split them with her)
64. clip on earrings (she's the only person I've ever known to wear them, and she wore them every day to match her outfit)
65. Sunday mass
66. Worrying
67. My horsehair lamp
68. Coke trays
69. The way her hand would graze the discard pile
70. Aprons (she even would help me make my own when I was little)
71. Fabric pens (she'd let me decorate my aprons with fabric pens)
72. Sunbonnet quilt
73. microwave cake
74. cinnimon raisin bread
75. state quarters
76. journals
77. Satin hands lotion
78. cuckoo clocks
79. pearls
80. coke pencils
81. phone books
82. corded phones
83. my large oak desk
84. Thanksgiving
85. road trip to Louisiana
86. Mezzodi's
87. Atlases
88. Door draft stoppers
89. yellow
90. wildflowers
91. bird baths
92.window blinds
93. Birthdays - she always had such a great time and she loved getting everyone together. I'll always remember hers and the amazing woman it celebrates!